Ideals Or Wishes Of Parents
Ever
been in a situation when your choice is not in line with the wishes of the
parents ? So , what do you feel? Most of you will understand how undecided at
the time. In fact , it has been used to dealing with these conditions .
Parents
do have a big hand in our lives . Therefore , every parent would want the best
for their children . They assume that most of us are not smart enough to choose
which one is best . So , they need to lend a hand in choosing the things that
sometimes do not comply with our penchant hobby even as a teenager .
Especially
when it comes to age differences and trends between parents and children . Most
parents assume when they were young at the current condition of their children
growing up. In fact , it could be very versus 180 derajat.Maka not surprising
that sometimes the child babbling to myself " Another first , another
right now " .
Indeed,
the nature of the parents ya like it , want the best for their children .
Because it is the parents who have the greatest merit for us , from the little
they who guide us . Crawl, and then how to walk , talk and even get a sense of
comfort for any given moment of affection. However , in certain cases that the
parents deem " best " sometimes is not the " best " according
to the child .
Not a
few , ultimately dictates the parents to the child . Like it or not , the
children have to follow their parents . As if to make his youthful ambition
that had not kesampean as a thing to be achieved son . " You should not be
denied ! Should be according to what the old man said " Well , if it's
like that ? We as an obedient son could just shut up and do the will of the
parents . Not be happy again , but already in the dressing sense forced to be a
burden .
Naturally
, if any of my friends started to argue when their parents choose this and it's
busy , " Weve father / mother who menjalanin ? I know that my ability
" . However , it can only be buried , to the limits of decency eastern
people in general .
Others
again , when my friends from the big city argues , " the opponent dong
parents you are arguing . Love the reason that makes sense . especially
with your own abilities " . he said
"
Uh want to explain , spoke a few words only, considered ngelawan . Yes forced
silence , and then only according to the willingness of the parents ? "
Should
the parents understand their position . They are not completely copy 's of
their own parents . The children also have hobbies , desires , ideals other can
generally inversely proportional to the parent 's own hobby . for example , I
have a friend whose parents are subject teachers calculations . But , the child
is more like literature and less able to follow the lessons smelling matter .
Well ? Very clearly the difference is not it?
In
terms of what parents sometimes insist that? Please see in the neighborhood
everyday life or from a variety of news media . Among them , about the choice
" school " or " majors " even up to the level of "
pick a mate " . Why can repotkan if parental choice is by no means our dream?
Fortunately
, I had parents who support my choice of the subject later . Understandably , I
was sitting in class 3 high school and will soon be busy with preparations to
the actual future . The selection of majors or later work is important and should
not just choose and thank my parents support my choice .
But ,
mirisnya some of my friends there are even forced to go into this department
and they admit it , that is not at all like not even interest with his parents
preferred majors . Naturally , since most parents consider majors such as
medicine is best and promising majors . In fact , I think personally , all the
majors have the same potential depends on the individuals who run it , whether
he is happy to live it and finally got a satisfactory result , or vice versa ?
Well, if the child's interest in the same things that smell literary forced to
continue in medicine ? You can imagine how the burden borne the child . parents
after all it was the most instrumental in our lives . Communications are active
it is important to get the best solution .
That's
all . Fixed stand for decency yes