Ideals Or Wishes Of Parents

Ideals Or Wishes Of Parents

Ever been in a situation when your choice is not in line with the wishes of the parents ? So , what do you feel? Most of you will understand how undecided at the time. In fact , it has been used to dealing with these conditions .

Parents do have a big hand in our lives . Therefore , every parent would want the best for their children . They assume that most of us are not smart enough to choose which one is best . So , they need to lend a hand in choosing the things that sometimes do not comply with our penchant hobby even as a teenager .

Especially when it comes to age differences and trends between parents and children . Most parents assume when they were young at the current condition of their children growing up. In fact , it could be very versus 180 derajat.Maka not surprising that sometimes the child babbling to myself " Another first , another right now " .

Indeed, the nature of the parents ya like it , want the best for their children . Because it is the parents who have the greatest merit for us , from the little they who guide us . Crawl, and then how to walk , talk and even get a sense of comfort for any given moment of affection. However , in certain cases that the parents deem " best " sometimes is not the " best " according to the child .

Not a few , ultimately dictates the parents to the child . Like it or not , the children have to follow their parents . As if to make his youthful ambition that had not kesampean as a thing to be achieved son . " You should not be denied ! Should be according to what the old man said " Well , if it's like that ? We as an obedient son could just shut up and do the will of the parents . Not be happy again , but already in the dressing sense forced to be a burden .

Naturally , if any of my friends started to argue when their parents choose this and it's busy , " Weve father / mother who menjalanin ? I know that my ability " . However , it can only be buried , to the limits of decency eastern people in general .

Others again , when my friends from the big city argues , " the opponent dong parents you are arguing . Love the reason that makes sense . especially with your own abilities " . he said

" Uh want to explain , spoke a few words only, considered ngelawan . Yes forced silence , and then only according to the willingness of the parents ? "

Should the parents understand their position . They are not completely copy 's of their own parents . The children also have hobbies , desires , ideals other can generally inversely proportional to the parent 's own hobby . for example , I have a friend whose parents are subject teachers calculations . But , the child is more like literature and less able to follow the lessons smelling matter . Well ? Very clearly the difference is not it?

In terms of what parents sometimes insist that? Please see in the neighborhood everyday life or from a variety of news media . Among them , about the choice " school " or " majors " even up to the level of " pick a mate " . Why can repotkan if parental choice is by no means our dream?

Fortunately , I had parents who support my choice of the subject later . Understandably , I was sitting in class 3 high school and will soon be busy with preparations to the actual future . The selection of majors or later work is important and should not just choose and thank my parents support my choice .

But , mirisnya some of my friends there are even forced to go into this department and they admit it , that is not at all like not even interest with his parents preferred majors . Naturally , since most parents consider majors such as medicine is best and promising majors . In fact , I think personally , all the majors have the same potential depends on the individuals who run it , whether he is happy to live it and finally got a satisfactory result , or vice versa ? Well, if the child's interest in the same things that smell literary forced to continue in medicine ? You can imagine how the burden borne the child . parents after all it was the most instrumental in our lives . Communications are active it is important to get the best solution .

That's all . Fixed stand for decency yes